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<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 06:00:01 -0600</pubDate>
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  <title>teen out of control</title>
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  <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 08:32:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <category>Juvenile Law</category>
  <description>GA AND SC
 

WE ARE IN 2 HOMES, ONE IN GA AND ONE IN SC, WE HAVE 4 CHILDREN, 1 COLLEGE STUDENT AT HOME, ONE 16 YEAR OLD SON, ONE 10 AND YOUNGEST 8
 

OVER LAST YEAR WE HAVE DRASTICALLY MADE CHANGES IN OUR LIVES IN AN EFFORT TO PROVIDE WHAT WE FELT AND OUR SON FELT WAS BEST, THE HARDER WE TRY THE WORSE IT GETS.....
 

HE HAS THREATENED TO MAKE UP FALSE ACCUSSATIONS AGAINST US EACH TIME HE DOESN'T GET HIS WAY SUCH AS PHYSICAL AND SEXUAL ABUSES STATING THAT POLICE WILL TAKE OUR CHILDREN AND PLACE IN FOSTER CARE,
 

HE IS ALWAYS POTRAYING HIMSELF AS THE VICTUM AND HAS AN EXCUSE FOR EVERYTHING THAT IS TOTALLY NON RELATED  AND HAS CONVINCED HIMSELF HE IS RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING... HE MAKES CONSTANT ATTEMPTS TO PROVOKE US TO ANGER, HE HAS RAGES OF ANGER AND HAS SLAPPED OUR YOUNGER CHILDEREN, HE HAS BEATED THE DOORS TRYING TO GET AT US AS PARENTS WHEN WE TRY AN EXTIT THE SITUATION TO ALLOW HIM TO CALM DOWN, 
 

TROUBLE IS THERE REALLY ISNT ANYTHING FOR HIM TO BE UPSET ABOUT, IT IS ALL PERCIEVED
 

NOW THAT IT IS GONE ON WE ARE DEALING WITH SIMPLE TO LARGER ISSUES WHERE WE ADDRESS A SITUATION AND WE ARE DEALT ONE OF THE FOLLOWING 
 

RESPONSES:  
 

&quot;NO, I'M FINE&quot;

&quot;NO, I DON'T WANT TO&quot;

&quot;NO YOUR NOT GONNA TELL ME WHAT I HAVE TO DO&quot;

&quot;NO I AM NOT GONNA DO THAT&quot;

&quot;YOUR'E NOT GONNA&quot;

&quot;I AM GONNA&quot;

&quot;OH WELL&quot;

&quot;WHATEVER&quot;

&quot;WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT&quot;

&quot;GO FOR IT&quot;

IF YOU CALL POLICE THAT WILL BE THE WORST THING YOU EVER DID&quot;
 

STUFF LIKE THAT, SO NOW BASIC THINGS LIKE, 
 

PICK UP YOUR CLOTHES, GET UP FOR SCHOOL, ITS 1AM, LETS TURN THE CELL PHONE AND TV OFF AND GET TO BED
 

WE GET A &quot;NO&quot; I AM FINE - &quot;I DON&quot;T WANT TO DO THAT&quot;
 

THEN USUALLY ONE OF THE ABOVE RESPONSES
 

WE CARE ABOUT OUR SON AND REALLY WANT TO HELP HIM, HOWEVER ARE NOW AT THE POINT OF PROTECTING THE OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS AND STOP THE ABUSE...
 

WE HAVE TAKEN HIM TO EVERY MEDICAL TEST YOU CAN IMAGINE TO JUST BE GIVEN NORMAL READINGS, OUTSIDE FAMILY AND INFLUENCES ARE TRYING TO PURSUADE US TO GET HIM ON MEDICATION FOR ADHD, ADD AND ALL THAT ....
 

REALLY THE PROBLEM IS IN HIS HEART AND WE WANT TO LOVE HIM TO RESOLUTION AND HELP HIM
 

I CANNOT IMAGINE DEALING WITH THIS AT THE COST OF TRAUMITIZING OUR OTHER CHILDREN....
 

I HAVE LEARNED TO STAY CALM AND NON REACTIVE IN THESE OUTBURSTS AND SITUATOIONS TO QUICKLY DEFUSE THE SITUATION IN AN EFFORT TO RESOLVE
 

MY WIFE AND COLLEGE DAUGHTER, YELL BACK AND USE SARCASISM AND GENERALLY WORSEN THE SITUATION AND CREATE REACTIONS VERSUS RESOLUTIONS OR AT LEAST A PROCESS OF RESOLUTION...
 

WE HAVE RELOCATED IN THIS ECONOMY AND SUFFERED SEVERE LOSSES AND HARDSHIPS BY PRIORITIZING A TOP RANKED CHRISTIAN SCHOOL AND CHURCH IN SC, WHICH HE LOVES SOCIALLY, I AM COMMUTING 3 HOURS TO WORK WHILE SEEKING OPPORTUNITIES IN THE AREA AND LIVE IN FEAR WHILE I AM AWAY THAT SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN...MY INCOMES HAVE GONE FROM $185K PER YEAR TO SO FAR LESS THAN $20K PER YEAR DEALING WITH ALL THIS, AND WE ARE ON THE VERGE OF BK... ALL THATS OK, I ONLY CARE ABOUT THE WELL BEING OF MY SON AND MY FAMILY, MATERIAL THINGS CAN BE REPLACED, JUST STRIVING FOR BASIC NEEDS ...
 

I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS:
 

1-SHOULD MY WIFE AND I FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROTECTING THE CHILDREN GET A LEGAL SEPERATION OR DIVORCE AND ONE OF US TAKE HIM FOR A SEASON TO PROTECT THE OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS?
 

2- IF WE ARE IN SEPERATE HOMES AND SEPERATE STATES, AND I REMAIN WITH MY SON, IS THERE A TIME FRAME THAT NEEDS TO BE ESTABLISHED BEFORE THE OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS ARE EFFECTED, IN OTHER WORDS, WHEN CAN I CALL POLICE DURING AN OUTBURST TO WHERE OTHER CHILDREN ARE NOT INVOLVED AND CANNOT BE TAKEN FROM THE HOME NO MATTER WHAT MY SON CREATES?
 

3- IS THERE ANYTHING THE POLICE WILL EVEN DO TO MY SON? IT APPEARS ALL LAWS ARE IN FAVOUR OF THE CHILD AND THEY KNOW JUST WHAT TO SAY AND DO AND THE PARENTS AND FAMILY SUFFER BUT THERE IS NO CONSEQUENCE TO THE TEENAGER AT ALL? AT WHAT POINT SHOULD I INVOLVE AN AUTHORITY?
 

4- IN RESEARCHING I CANNOT FIND ANYWHERE THAT COULD BE AN OPTION, LIKE A MILLITARY ACADEMY OR PROGRAM TO SEND HIM, ONLY PRIVATE PLACES THAT COSTS ALOT AND MOST ARE FOR AFTER HIGH SCHOOL. HE IS 16, 
 

5- I AM OPEN FOR ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS AND ADVICE... I TALKED TO A FRIEND IN A SHERRIFS OFFICE IN ANOTHER STATE AND HE SAYS HE DEALS WITH THIS ALL THE TIME, NOT HELPFUL, BUT GUESS I KNOW I AM NOT TOTALLY ALONE IN THIS. HE SUGGESTS GOING TO THE POLICE DEPT IN ADVANCE AND LOGGING SITUATIONS AND TELLING THEM OUR CONCERNS, I GUESS LIKE THIS BLOG, AND LETTING THEM NOTE FILE AND NOT BE CAUGHT BY SURPRISE.. HOWEVER SEEMS RISKY TO ME AND TOTALLY LEAVES MY FAMILY AT THE RISK OF A PERSON OR WHAT IF THAT OFFICER IS OFF THAT DAY.... JUST NOT AT PAECE WITH THAT
 

THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING I CAN DO, SURELY SOMEONE OTHER THAN ME HAS BEEN THRU THIS BEFORE?
 

HELP..... I CANNOT TAKE ANY MORE, I AM AT MY END...

what can we do????????
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  <title>Problems</title>
  <link>http://www.elprime.com/tracker/subscribe.htm?485668.001</link>
  <pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 15:09:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <category>Other Crimes – Federal and State</category>
  <description>I'm having a problem with the same charges in a way. When I was 19 my father broke into a house and stole 47,000 dollars worth of stuff. Well when he was caught he told the cops it was me, but all I did was dropped him off at the house. (He told me a friend of his lived there and that he was visiting him.) This happened in VA, A month after he had done this me and my fiance had moved to SC at the time. Well when he told the cops that it was me, 6 bounty hunter came to my house, tazzed me, and locked me up for something I didn't do. I spend 17 months locked up for this B.S. They said that I was being charged with burglary (Day dwelling With the intent to commit larceny) &amp; Grand Larceny. Well My Final Court Case came up and the Burglary got dropped to unlawful entry, and the grand larceny was dropped to a non prossi. Now What is happening now is my new fiance and I were watching her parents house while they were out of town, and on one of the days we were there when we left she left the door unlocked while we were gone. we were gone for about 6-8 hours. Now we didn't know but someone went into the house while we were gone and stole alot of jewelry and other small miscellaneous items. we didn't notice that anything was gone because we couldn't tell. Well her parents came back and noticed the stuff missing out of were it belongs, and is trying to blame me for the stuff missing. Now if I ended up being charge with yet another grand larceny and burglary charge for something that I didn't do, exactly how much time will I have to serve for this?
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  <title>Simple Poss charge but they want my money??</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 08:23:00 -0600</pubDate>
  <category>Drug Charges</category>
  <description>Hi guys need some advice i was charged with Poss of  Ctrl Subs and when i was arrested i have a little over 2300$ on me and im being told that they are going to keep it. Can they really do this and do i have a right to get that back? I was told they cant do that which brings me here. Dor. Co. police are try to railroad me im thinking. Any advice greatly help. Thanks
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